Scenario 1Ah Gong goes through test to see if he has lung cancer. (He may not survive the procedure due to old age)
Scenario 2Ah Gong (if get better) goes home or back to normal ward. Inject morphine to reduce pain. (Till he die)
Scenario 3Ah Gong condition may worsen and if it happens, we have to make a decision:
Option 1: Transfer to ICU, put him on life substaining machines. (machine becomes his heart)
Option 2: Let him die, inject morphine during last stage
What would u do? I will definitely go for quality instead of quantity.
Ah gong and Ah ma's marriage was pre-arrange my their parents.
Both of them have no choice.
I guess love or feelings develop over time.
Ah gong has 7 children.
He is 85 years old now.
He used to smoke heavily, but stop when he was about 60+.
He is very healthy, never once admitted into hospital.
He speaks hokkien to me, although my replies are usually limited.
I can't remember his favourite food or music, as such i never spent much time with him.
He usually sits in his favourite chair and watch us play from afar.
When my father passed away, ah gong is at the wake.
His mind was not clear always so i wonder whether he knew what happened.
He recognised me occasionally.
Today as i called him "ah gong", I saw him making an effort to open his eyes.
Still, i guess he is in pain (too much calcium in his blood)
I just wish he don't suffer much.