相由心生、境随心转

5 of us gals had a nice dinner yesterday. The dinner conversation range from fashion, babies, food, economics, office politics and weddings.

相由心生 is a term i learnt yesterday from Ash. Not entirely sure whether i spelled it correctly, but the underlying meaning is you can tell people's character from their looks.

I couldnt remember these words when i came home from dinner yesterday... but it came back to me this morning.

Mmm i wonder how much of a person character we can see from looks. But i guess its partially true too. People gives out vibes... and reveal to others through the eyes. Even if a person is not good looking, you can still feel comfortable around that person and like that person, cos maybe you can also feel that deep inside, the heart is warm and kind. I come across meeting some v.v. good looking people... but their eyes are like daggers and their heart seemed cold.... these people make you uncomfortable and repel you away.

So... OPEN HEART EYES and EARS to feel whats deep inside a person.

in addition, uncle sk found this in the net: 在古代，形成了一种预测术“面相学”，是专门以人的五官所储存的信息来推断一个人的祸、福、吉、凶的，面相学，是中国人家喻户晓的，俗话说：“人是一面 相。”一眼就能看出一个人的五观及外貌，同时带给人的第一感观及印象。

“心”是人们常说的内心深处的思维活动，并不单纯指的是人的心脏。内心里想的什么，在五官上就能现表什么。人的喜、怒、哀、乐、 悲、思、恐、惊无不表现在五官相上，五官就是一个很精确的测量仪。